Yesterday (Apr 25th), ABC’s ’20/20′ aired a story about a “boy” born with female brain. That is, this “boy” is a biological male, but “he” feels “he” is a girl, a condition known as “Gender-identity Disorder” or “Gender Dysphoria.”
Read ABC’s “Born with the wrong body”
For most people like me, it is very difficult to imagine the struggle these children must be going through. They have to confront not only with their own identiy crisis, but also with their peers and the societies that are not at all kind to them. ABC’s report says that many of these children end up self-mutilating themselves.
Coincidentally, one of the most popular young musicians in Japan is a person with Gender Dysphoria. The musician, Ataru Nakamura, 21-yr old, is a singer song writer, who has a beautiful female voice, but is biologically a male.
One of her hit songs, “Friend Song”, is said to be an enormous hit in that country. It’s a sad broken heart love song that she wrote when she was just a 15-yr old “girl.” She fell in love with a band member, a boy, even though she knew this was a totally hopeless love.
The lyrics goes like this (unofficial direct translation):
“I saw the future of my love even before touching you / but kept that meaningless love for a long, long time.”
“I did’t mend my broken heart, but tried to hide it under other pains in my heart / but it easily became so obvious, it leaked out from somewhere.”
“It would have been enough for me to just hold your hands / just walk together with you.”
“But even that may be difficult / so it is enough for me to be just a friend with someone important.”
“Could I have still been with you, if I hadn’t leaned on you?”
“If I hadn’t cared, I could have just left / but I knew it was impossible at that time.”
“You laughed at me, made fun of me / but I still couldn’t hate you, kept blaming myself, so pitiful, forever.”
“It would have been enough for me to just hold you hands / just walk together with you.”
“But even that may be difficult / so it is more than enough for me to be able to just look at someone important.”
“When you forget about me, if you ever see me again / please be friendly to me.”
Here’s the music video of Ataru Nakamura from Youtube:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OY83IdPJZNw[/youtube]
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[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dHAw5S0kKQg[/youtube]
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